Watching out for Scam Artists
When I started out as an entrepreneur there was a lot I didn’t know about (then again, there still is a lot I don’t know about). The one thing I kept running into were the so-called scam artists. You hear about it a lot in anything but I was a bit oblivious at the start since I felt I needed to learn every piece of knowledge from anyone and sadly it came from the places and people that I really don’t want to do business with.
You know the guy. He is a very good talker, has a lot of confidence in what he does and convinces you that you need his services. Now there isn’t one single person that I dealt with that I am talking about as there were quite a few but they all can be lumped into one group. I never liked the way they did business and they thrived on taking advantage of those that just didn’t seem to have the confidence in themselves or they were in desperate need of assistance to get their business going before everything went south.
One individual used to hold regular seminars and events throughout the city and it was always a different topic. He loved to take others under his wing to milk them for all they were worth until they had no money left and no business. I’ve seen computer companies partner with him to the point where they faced lawsuits because they got caught up in the behaviour all the way to turning good people into bad. I never did get caught up with this person since my spidey sense kicked in and I avoided them at all cost.
But once I ridded myself of that person I quickly found myself caught up with another. I look back now and boy did I feel like fresh prey to these guys. They saw a young guy who was starting a business and they wanted to get in there as much as possible. The second guy managed to get some stuff out of me since I felt there might have been long term benefits (it’s been over 4 years as I write this and believe me, no benefits). But as I quickly realized how it wasn’t good for my business, I got out.
Most of these guys tour the business networking groups in Calgary and some start their own networking groups. I’ve been in many networking groups and I’ve found some that work and others that simply don’t. It all depends.
So now this all leads me to a dilemma I have during this present day. I don’t trust anybody that’s a “consultant” as I think back to when I was burned over $9,000 or these guys that managed to be good talkers and pulled a fast one on me. I have trust issues and I know it. If you ever get into a job interview for my company I will flat out tell you that I don’t trust you and you need to earn it. I’m currently exploring bringing on a business coach right now and there is a couple of individuals that I’ve met that have “systems” and they do scare me off. I love systems, heck I run a computer / IT consulting firm, but it is just I didn’t like the first one and I find that some of it is quite expensive and useless.
But we will see. I’m waiting to see who can gain my trust since the whole scam artist thing really through me for a loop back in 2008. One thing you find out as an entrepreneur is that you will make mistakes, there’s no doubt about it. What really matters is how you respond to those mistakes and learn from them. My problem is learning to get past some of the mistakes.